Free private 3-episode podcast2x 1:1 Coaching Sessions/month
75 minutes, held virtually, starting from where you actually are and working out what comes next from there.
You can become someone new without figuring it out alone.
BECOME™ is a 4 month coaching journey for ambitious women suddenly questioning their entire identity and who want to know what comes next.
Book a connection callYou tell people you're fine. Most days, you almost believe it.
Then you catch an old photo of yourself and can't remember what it actually felt like to be her: how easy those days felt, and how sure you felt about what you wanted...
This is confusing, I know. You're in the middle of becoming someone new, and nobody prepared you for it. That's what BECOME is all about.
"Having an appointment with you was really an appointment with myself."Renata Altamirano
The process
The BECOME Framework
We start with where you actually are right now, tired, a bit lost and maybe judging yourself for it. Then we work out what comes next from there, instead of from the five-year plan you wrote before you had a baby. This will take you from "I don't know who I am anymore" to "I feel at home in myself, my body, my mind, and my emotions, and I know what I want next." Our sessions follow what's actually happening in your life, and the modules are there to support that, not the other way around.
Because you can only truly know what to do next, and how to do it, once you feel at home in yourself.
B
Be
Get clear on who you are today, and understand what matrescence means.
E
Exhale
Reconnect with your body through breath and nervous system regulation.
C
Challenge
Identify what's genuinely yours to carry, and what you can finally put down.
O
Open
Decide who you want to be in this new life, instead of letting the to-do list decide for you.
M
Move
Practice being her in daily life, in the small moments and the big ones.
E
Embody
Make it stick, so a sleepless week doesn't knock you back to zero.
The details
What's Included
Here's exactly what's inside BECOME, and what each part is actually for.
1 Monthly Group Integration Session
A group call to integrate what you're learning, hear other women's experiences, and feel less alone in this.
WhatsApp Support
Support between sessions, for when something comes up and you need to process it in the moment.
Learning Modules
Short lessons, video modules and exercises you work through in your own time, matched to where you are in your journey.
Body Work
A mix of pre-recorded video tutorials and live group sessions on breathwork, gentle yoga, and nervous system regulation.
"Before coaching I felt insecure as a mother, as a wife and as an employee, and now I feel more self-confident, clearer in my decisions and more intentional in how I show up for myself and the people around me."Cassandra Grüter Gonzales
The outcome
4 months to figure out not just who you are, but what comes next
Beth went back to study a career she'd given up on years ago, Renata opened her nutrition business online and explored new ways to grow it, and Munirah stopped being scared of her own emotions. Cassandra kept building her career on reduced hours and found the confidence to say no to others. Your road will look different, but you'll leave knowing which one is yours. You'll end these four months with clarity around who you are, what you actually want and the confidence to build a life around it, with a plan that actually works with a toddler in the house.
BECOME
4-month identity coaching programme
Founder pricing · First 5 spots onlyBECOME is a 4 month 1:1 coaching journey for ambitious women suddenly questioning their entire identity.
This is for you, if you don't recognise yourself anymore, and you're ready for real support figuring out who you're becoming.
- 8 × 75-minute 1:1 sessions (two a month)
- 4 monthly group calls with the other women in the programme
- WhatsApp support between sessions
- Short learning modules between sessions, always matched to what we're working on 1:1
- Body work with me: breathwork, gentle yoga and nervous system regulation
- 2 alumni sessions after the programme ends
€400/month
or €1,500 in full
Book a connection callA 30-minute conversation to explore where you are in your transition into motherhood and what feels unclear or in tension right now. This is a space to reflect, get perspective and see whether working together would be helpful for you.
Real messages, real results
Client Love
These are the actual messages my clients sent me.
FAQ
What's the investment?
€400 a month, or €1,500 if you'd rather pay it in full and forget about it. This is founder pricing for the first 5 spots in this beta round, so it won't stay this way.
When does the coaching start?
The beta round will start in January 2027.
I go back to work in 1 to 2 months. Can you help me immediately?
Yes. Your 1:1 sessions start from week one, so we get moving straight away. The sooner we talk, the more ground we can cover before you're back at your desk.
I'm a new mum. How can I fit this into my schedule?
Every single one of my clients is a new mum, so I mean this: come as you are. Baby strapped to you, feeding mid-call, bouncing in a corner, having to run off halfway through, all of it is completely normal here. We schedule your calls to work around your baby's timeline, not the other way around.
Is this virtual, and what languages do you coach in?
Fully virtual, wherever you are. 1:1 sessions run in English, German, or Spanish. Group sessions and materials are in English.
What if I'm mid-crisis, not just "a bit off"?
Then tell me on our call. This is identity coaching, not therapy or crisis support, and I'll always be honest with you about whether it's the right fit, and point you toward the right support if it isn't.
An honest note
What happens if you don't do this work?
Honestly, life probably won't fall apart tomorrow. You'll most likely keep going because this is what you have been doing and you're good at that...
You'll keep performing "fine" at a version of yourself that no longer fits. You'll keep trying harder at the same things that stopped working the day you became a mother, because trying harder is the only tool you've ever needed before. You'll keep pushing through the exhaustion, the disconnect, the quiet feeling that something in you has gone missing, because pushing through is what you do.
And maybe, eventually, some of it eases on its own. But the identity crisis doesn't just resolve itself because time passes. It just gets buried under one more year of performing, one more year of not quite recognising yourself, one more year of wondering what happened to the person you used to be.
BECOME is an invitation to actually reevaluate who you are and what you want, instead of carrying on with a version of your life that no longer fits. Not doing this work doesn't mean nothing happens. It means staying on the same road a little longer, when part of you already knows there's a different one.
With love, Jackie
I help ambitious women redefine who they are in motherhood.
Book a connection callA 30-minute conversation to explore where you are in your transition into motherhood and what feels unclear or in tension right now. This is a space to reflect, get perspective and see whether working together would be helpful for you.